Dating and black women and white men

16-Nov-2014 12:51 by 2 Comments

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Plus, if your grandmother is telling you this..much is she really and truly living in 2010 when she says this?

There's a saying I've heard before that goes "White guy gets the check, black guy gets the sex," men may falsely interpret your sexual wariness as wanting a relationship with a white man but being more sexually/physically attracted to black guys.

However false, it IS completely accurate to call it prejudice to suspect the worst of a guy's romantic intentions simply because of his skin tone.

It's not white men that are keeping black women single.

The "Won't Marry You" line is an especially popular one among black families who perhaps aren't all that ready to embrace a white son-in-law themselves.

Does anyone really think every single black guy they meet or that tries to talk to a black woman is interested in a relationship? [It was the Beatles who sung "I Want To Hold Your Hand" while hip hop gives us "Til Sweat Drips From My Balls"] I just think this is a tactic used to make black women so (subconsciously) leery and paranoid about white men they don't really give them a chance. If you would have sex with a black guy after a week but want to hold out over paranoia of a white guy for months, it'll create distance, suspicion you don't really think white guys are all that attractive, and make us wonder where the relationship is even headed if you vastly preferred your past boyfriends enough to have sex with them so much sooner.

None of that might be true, but it's how men might interpret it.

The last time I checked it is a widely held belief that men in general tend to like sex, want sex, think about sex once every 7 seconds (I just did), and--and this will surprise exactly no one--don't want to marry every girl they have sex with.

I am not exactly sure why it is completely sinister for a white man to want sex while it is just regular lousy or typical for a black man to want it. Believe it or not it's about the best way I can think of to sabotage a relationship.

It's a familiar tactic of the prejudiced to make it seem like they are the victims of prejudice (like Glenn Beck saying Barack Obama hates white people in a recent interview lol).

So I would always encourage people to ask themselves why someone is really saying this and if maybe there isn't at least some wariness on the part of a black father or grandmother or traditionalist (i.e.

I have seen some black guys on message boards get so mad when they see Joy Bryant or Zoe Saldana or Naomi Campbell date/marry a white guy, even though they don't know them, never met them, never will meet them, and never had a shot anyway. The bottom line is that some of the most charming, good looking, intelligent black men I can think of (Taye Diggs, Montell Williams) are married to white women, and that leaves some lower class, misogynistic black men with black women ridiculously out of their league: Ike and Tina Turner, 50 Cent with Vivica A.

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